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Most fathers believe they need to be authoritative Most fathers believe they need to be authoritative to gain respect in their families. They perceive they might seem weak if their child does not obey them. Usually, this happens because of internalized beliefs that we are not doing the best that we could. Instead of changing ourselves, we become reactive and focus only on our child’s behaviors.  Learning to negotiate with your child is a skill that will benefit both of you for a lifetime. Teaching your child they are not inferior, and that they can succeed with support from dad. It becomes about finding meaning within yourself, so you can continue to guide them to a life of fulfillment and abundance.
A strong foundation allows fathers to raise spirit A strong foundation allows fathers to raise spirited children.⠀ ⠀ The examples we set with our actions will create real change.⠀ ⠀ If we value truth, then we will be honest about how we raise our children.⠀ ⠀ We will treat them how we wish to be treated.⠀ ⠀ No longer will we need to talk down to them, criticize them, or treat them as less of a human.⠀ ⠀ If we are truthful, we will admit we can do better.⠀ ⠀ They will be allowed to be themselves regardless of how it affects us.⠀ ⠀ They can be genuine without bending to the pressures of others.⠀ ⠀ You must shift your focus from your children being a nuisance to one of the greatest things you will create as a man.⠀ ⠀ Peacefulfathers.com
If the goal is to create a civilized society, we m If the goal is to create a civilized society, we must first start in our home. ⠀ ⠀ There is overwhelming data to show the positive impact of growing up in a home with a father.⠀ ⠀ Imagine how much more powerful the impact of fathers would be in the world if we were committed to doing hard parenting work.⠀ ⠀ It starts with having a conversation with other fathers or reading a parenting book. A little time and dedication can have a tremendous impact on the future of your family.⠀ ⠀ The new website is dedicated to helping men become better fathers.⠀ ⠀ Stay tuned for more content.⠀
Every father wants his son our daughter to be toug Every father wants his son our daughter to be tough. We want our children to be resilient and rise above the obstacles in life. ⠀ ⠀ We often let our own insecurities and fear get in the way. We soon remember how it felt to be defenseless and weak as a child. ⠀ ⠀ Raising your standards as father requires you to be honest with the interactions you have with your child. Are you displaying skills of self regulation and mental toughness? Do you break down at challenges you face with your child?⠀ ⠀ I had a great conversation with @hunterdrewtfa recently about how we can start supporting fathers with raising children who get back up after failure, who have the ability to solve problems, and becoming the best version of themselves. ⠀ ⠀ You know what? It all starts with you. The greatest gift we can give to our kids is displaying courage and love in the times it is needed most. ⠀ ⠀ We have these important conversations often in FoE. There are great things going on in The Fraternity of Excellence. Men supporting men in all areas of life.
"Experience has taught us that we have only one en "Experience has taught us that we have only one enduring weapon in our struggle against mental illness: the emotional discovery of the truth about the unique history of our childhood. Is it possible, then, to free ourselves altogether from illusions? History demonstrates that they sneak in everywhere, that every life is full of them—perhaps because truth often seems unbearable to us. And yet truth is so essential that it's loss exacts a heavy toll, in the form of grave illness. In order to become whole we must try, in a long time process, to discover our own personal truth, a truth that may cause pain before giving us a new sphere of freedom. If we choose instead to content ourselves with intellectual "wisdom" we will remain in the sphere of illusion and self-deception. The damage done to us during childhood cannot be undone, since we cannot change anything in our past. We can, however, change ourselves."—Alice Miller Thepolitesavage.blog Peacefulfathers.com
The false self fights, argues, manipulates, blames The false self fights, argues, manipulates, blames, submits, abuses, and avoids.⠀ ⠀ The true self is assertive, negotiable, brainstorms, and compromises with mutual respect. ⠀ ⠀ There is a clear and demonstrable reason for optimism in creating healthy and nurturing families through greater self awareness and taking full responsibility for raising the quality of your own life. ⠀ ⠀ Choose to be peaceful ⠀ ⠀ Thepolitesavage.blog ⠀ ⠀ Peacefulfathers.com
We often criticize children for being susceptible We often criticize children for being susceptible to the allure of instant gratification. ⠀ ⠀ Very rarely do we take a moment and realize the effects of our own parenting methods. We usually demand instant compliance. We get upset if our words aren't met with immediate compliance. We fail to recognize how important the examples we show our children will guide them in creating the best possible future. ⠀ ⠀ Being honest about our own actions will allow us to find the courage to change these undesirable behaviors. When we scream, yell, hit, spank, and punish our children we are teaching them the pleasure of instant gratification. ⠀ ⠀ When we take the time to build a strong foundation, explain things, negotiate outcomes, and are passionate about creating healthy relationships, we teach our children the importance of delayed gratification. We become the example of a person not afraid to do the hard work. ⠀ ⠀ Thepolitesavage.blog ⠀ ⠀ Peacefulfathers.com
You don't have to struggle as a parent.⠀ ⠀ Fin You don't have to struggle as a parent.⠀ ⠀ Finding solutions to problems is never easy, but is worth the effort. ⠀ ⠀ Becoming a peaceful parent allows you to focus on solutions instead of reacting to behavior. ⠀ ⠀ If you display negativity and doubt your child will suffer, but if your mind is filled with positivity it will reflect in your home. ⠀ ⠀ You become more aware of the influence you have over your child and the focus becomes centered around your own self improvement. How can you be a better father? ⠀ Choose to be peaceful. ⠀ ⠀
The true strength of a man is determined with how The true strength of a man is determined with how he treats his children. We live in a time when it is still acceptable to hit or spank children. Society can not and will not improve until fathers take action in providing safety and protection. Spanking is domestic violence just as much as hitting your spouse is domestic violence. The difference is your spouse is an adult and can leave the relationship. Children are powerless and dependent on their parents. This is the greatest abuse of power. I refuse to inflict any type of violence on my children. It is my job as a father to protect them and teach them to be aware of abusers. I never want to be the abuser. I never want to see how much abuse is too much. I never want my children to fear me. I set higher standards for my children.
It is important and extremely difficult to realize It is important and extremely difficult to realize your own self worth. As children most of us weren't raised with the best intentions of good self esteem. There was an overwhelming burden of punishments, shame, guilt, anxiety, abuse, and conformity. A childhood that was made to endure the unawareness of the previous generations. There is overwhelming evidence that high self esteem correlates to how we treat others with respect, kindness, and generosity. This is painful to comprehend if our own childhood did not encourage these things. Because you are a parent, a family member, or a friend does not exclude you from treating others with these principles. If we want to raise happy and healthy children we need to break the cycle that is holding us to these lower standards. As parents we should be raising our children peacefully. We should be teaching or children to have the courage to live a life that is authentic. Otherwise they will spend a good part of their lives hiding from others and themselves.
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