A MORE PEACEFUL HOME WITH COMPASSION

There are undoubted struggles you will go through in life; the support you receive in those moments will help determine your future functionality.  One of the greatest lessons I learned as a father was acquiring the ability to empathize with myself. To look back at my childhood and ask what I needed in the time of these struggles.  If I was not sincere with the…

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Nothing Genuine is Easily Destroyed

In a previous post that I wrote for The Forge of Men, I explained about how you are raising the next “Nice Guy.” I explained how ineffective and abusive parenting methods cause us to raise a boy that becomes detached from his own needs to gain acceptance from his parents. He quickly learns that if he is good, people will like him, and the Nice…

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The Civilized Father

Should we use power over our children? We must understand how the powers attributed to being a man and how that power is contained in our home.   Most people quickly get outraged when cops abuse their power over citizens or when a big corporation mistreats an employee. We often fail to confront this imbalance in our own home, especially when it’s against our family’s smallest…

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