There are many things associated with how society is constructed, and one of the most overlooked causes is the dysfunction we produce in our own homes. How you treat your children will impact the world. Most people focus on division, hatred, frustration, and emptiness because they choose to ignore the abuse in their homes. This negativity has been ingrained in them from childhood because of…
I often hear fathers say that they would give their lives for their kids. It is encouraging to me how such a difficult decision needs little thought about making the ultimate sacrifice. There is nothing more honorable than a father who is willing to risk his life to see that his children go on to experience their own lives. Would you kill for your kids?…
When we punish our children, there is nothing that benefits them in the learning process. Most of the time, we use punishment because our children made a mistake or disagree with us. We think the best way to teach our children is to inflict negative or imposed consequences to change their behaviors. I often hear that you need to be consistent with your punishment, which will…
You’re raising the next Nice Guy! Most “traditional parenting” philosophies rely on punishment or the threat of punishment to control kids. When you use these methods, you’re facilitating the creation of these Nice Guys. When we use force and control upon children, there are two reactions, rebellion or submission, along with the coping mechanisms of each. These mechanisms include being aggressive, destructive, full of rage,…
Every father wants to pass down his legacy and know that his time and energy will represent the pillars of developing a respectable family. There are many ideas passed down from generations and many disruptive influences from today’s dysfunctional society. Still, flaws from the past and failures of the present do not control your life. The dangers of the world must not break your home.…
